I mentioned in an earlier post my intention of making a monument for my late wife. These are the finished marble pieces for her grave.
This was the first time I ever really sculpted or carved anything. I had a great deal of help doing the initial sculpture in clay from the director of the sculpture program at the Florence Academy of Art, Robert Bodem, who let me use his studio for a couple of months and showed me what to do. He also did the plaster casts for me. The sculpture technique at the FAA is very drawing-based, so all my years of charcoal and pencil portraits was of some help. I still really had no idea what I was doing. Rob would often come in with a trowel and take off lots of clay. Another old friend, Calyxte Campe gave me a day of hands-on help with the bust, and Johanna Schwaiger helped with the final stages of the marble.
Everything about this project was different. Normally, the process with portraiture is that the closer you get to a likeness the happier you feel about the work. When sculpting one’s wife a month after her death, the dynamic is very much the opposite.
Alba had always wanted a dog. After they discovered the tumor she adopted a little stray from the streets of Naples, Emma. The dog always sleeps with it’s ears perked up, but after Alba’s death it slept for a few days with the ears down. I tried to capture that in the sculpture.
‘Emma’ will go at the foot of the grave, with Alba’s bust near the headstone. An architect friend of hers, Rudi Ulivi, has done a very elegant design for it all, something of a modern version of Jacopo della Quercia’s tomb of Ilaria del Carretto.
Here are some photos from the process. The dog was done in our apartment from life. She sleeps on her pillow next to the radiator most of the winter anyways, so she was a pretty easy model. I tried to make the pillow look like one of the many cheap Ikea pillows we had around the house.
Alba was done from photographs. Here I’m working in Rob’s studio in Florence.
The clay pieces were then cast into plaster, and laser-scanned by a marble-carving company in Carrara, Italy. After picking out a sculpture-grade marble block, the scans were sent to the robot (pictured below) which carves the blocks to within a millimeter of the specifications of the scan. It’s hard to tell the scale in the photo but Mickey is bigger than a person.
It may seem like cheating, but I learned that every sculptor since Michelangelo has had assistants block in the marble from the maestro’s clay model.
This digital process worked to my advantage in that, having never sculpted before, I had made the bust of Alba way too big. By using this method of the laser-scan and 3D computer image I was able to measure an old sight-size oil portrait I did of her and reduce the dimensions of the digital wireframe model to her exact scale.
After the marble comes back from the robot it still needs a great deal of work. I tried rasps and chisels but at the end found it easier to use a dremel.
When Alba learned of her tumor she desperately wanted some form of immortality, I guess we all do. None of us will get it.
This was the best I could do.
so sad and inspiring and same time speechless! Myself and Alba lived in the same neighbourhood in Tirana.
Marc, this is a beautiful tribute to your wife. I am sorry for you loss.
So beautiful Marc! <3
Simply Amazing! You’re a star!
This is a wonderful memorial and the greatest form of love an artist can give.
What a loving tribute. So very beautiful your post makes me want to cry.
I wish everything I saw on reddit was as heartfelt and passionate as this. I’m sorry to hear about your wife. The sculpture is incredible. I hope you continue to sculpt.
it’s beautiful
Che bello.
Thank you for sharing, and especially sharing the story of creating it.
Speechless. Your are an example as an artist and as a person, a constant source of inspiration. Thank you Marc.
My God, what woman would not feel blessed to have you for a husband? This is such a beautiful and touching tribute. Thank you for sharing.
Straordinario …. bravo
Hi Marc,
This is such a beautiful portrait. I’m sorry for your loss.
I bet she would have been very proud and happy with the result.
with tears in my eyes. She is beautiful. You’ll probably have trouble declaring her finished, because you’ll lose her again.
Marc these are marvelous!!!!!!! It was my pleasure to help you out as much as I could. It was an inspiration to me to witness such a brave undertaking!!!!! Congratulations
Heartbreaking and transcendent.
My heart aches for you and Emma.
Marc, your tribute to your wife has inspired, yet saddend me. I have thought to do the same, but I am only allowed an “in ground” marker. Still after seeing and reading your post, I may try again to submit something within there guidlines.
Thank you for all the wonderful posts and great paintings.
Wow Marc that’s really breathtaking! I bet she’s definitely beaming a smile.
~Kirby
Beautiful work Marc. One can feel the love.
Jim
Marc, everything you touch is beautiful, Alba would have loved it.
Dear Marc, you did a wonderful piece of art! And I am sure you wife still is able to witness your beautiful creations.
yours
E.Milz
Marc, this is a beautiful tribute to your late wife. A very emotional and inspiring post to read.
Stuart
Lei ha fatto un bellissimo lavoro in onore di sua moglie. La seguo da qualche anno, sul suo sito, lei è fonte di ispirazione. Le mie più sentite condoglianze.
GREAT JOB
Hi Marc, this post moved me to tears, such a beautiful memorial, for your beautiful wife, My thoughts will be with you as I reflect on this post – both the saddness and the expression of deepest love. My sincerest condolences on your loss.
Wow Mark. I can only begin to describe the admiration I have for the courage necessary to undertake this project.
I wonderful tribute to your wife. She was surely loved and is continued to be loved. I hope this process helped you. You have my prayers.
This is so lovely.
So very awesome what a Gift u gave ur wife and a Tribute to her and U thanks for sharing with Us May God Bless you